Men stand taller, thrust up their chins, expand their chests, and pull in their stomachs making them look like the king of the jungle. The walking gait becomes more limber and bouncy as we endeavor to appear vigorous, healthy, and youthful and convey our suitability as mates, and perhaps replace the ravages of time or too many late nights. Bodily muscle tone in the torso, arms, leg, and face tighten up as a person via evolutionary instincts prepares for a possible sexual encounter. Watch a person in the company of someone he or she finds at least remotely attractive and see what happens. Albert Scheflen, immediate physiological changes occur when people enter into the same space as a member of the opposite sex. Attracting Someone's AttentionĪccording to pioneering psychology and non-verbal communications researcher Dr. Men, notably if they are athletic themselves, are impressed by a woman who talks about her time surfing, playing tennis, or climbing mountains. In this section we delve into the wild, oft times confusing world of flirtation and courtship behavior. Some courtship signals are deliberate, others are unconscious.

How you use your body exposes how ready you are for a bit of romance, how attractive you feel, and how interested you are. Observe how long-term lovers anticipate one another's actions by the way they move in synch with their partners. Finally, having captured and conquered the unsuspecting, or equally interested party, your body moves into a new mode of behaving that demonstrates comfort, ease, and familiarity. If you're feeling good about yourself the way you focus your eyes, position your mouth, and maneuver your shoulders, hips, and hands send out signals that say, 'Check me out! I think you're hot!' After you get your target's attention you shift gears to hold onto his or her interest and move the attraction to another level. To play a really successful game of flirtation your body must speak what your mouth won't say. You simply can't convey romantic interest without the body getting into the act. Try flirting without using body language. Westside Toastmasters is located in Los Angeles and Santa Monica, California Chapter 15 AFFAIRS OF THE HEART: SIGNALS OF ATTRACTION AND FLIRTATION

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